Statement on Ray Holmberg’s Decades of Abuse and Exploitation

North Dakota Domestic & Sexual Violence Coalition Statement on Ray Holmberg’s Decades of Abuse and Exploitation

The news of Ray Holmberg’s abuse and exploitation of men and boys over the course of several decades is deeply disturbing and concerning. The North Dakota Domestic & Sexual Violence Coalition (NDDSVC) strongly condemns these terrible acts of sexual violence and exploitation, along with all other forms of sexual assault, abuse, and harassment.

At NDDSVC, victims and survivors of domestic and sexual violence have always been, and always will be, at the forefront of our work. Our thoughts are with the victims of Ray Holmberg and their families. We hope that Holmberg’s sentencing brings some sense of justice and peace.

We also hope that the names of the individuals who enabled his abuse are brought to light.

Certain individuals close to Holmberg were aware of his continuous abuse of men and boys in North Dakota, across the U.S., and abroad. Investigators have found emails and messages between Holmberg and his former colleagues and friends where he admits to abusing men and boys. Whether those who knew stayed silent out of fear, negligence, or for their own personal gain, we owe it to victims and survivors to bring those individuals to justice as well. Holmberg himself is ultimately the one to blame for his crimes, but we must also address how his abuse and exploitation of others was able to continue for so long.

Sexual violence thrives in a culture of isolation and silence, and Ray Holmberg used power and control to keep those around him silent. We cannot let others like him do the same. We call on North Dakotans to turn your anger, sadness, or outrage around this case into action. 

If you are concerned that a friend, family member, coworker, or neighbor may be experiencing abuse or exploitation, reach out to them. Let them know they’re not alone and that you’re there for them. Ending the culture of isolation and silence begins with reaching out a helping hand.

If you see warning signs that someone may be abusing or exploiting others, say something. Depending upon your situation, you can report to your school, workplace, or to law enforcement. Anonymous tips can be reported to law enforcement officials through ND Tip.

We believe in a North Dakota without sexual violence, but it will take everyone, especially those in positions of power, to get there. Lawmakers, law enforcement officials, community leaders, and individuals across the state must speak out against sexual violence and prioritize the safety and well-being of all North Dakotans, especially those who are most at risk of exploitation and abuse. 

In solidarity, 

NDDSVC

If you’ve experienced sexual violence, know that what happened to you was not your fault. You can find free and confidential support at any of the 18 domestic violence and sexual assault victim advocacy centers in North Dakota. Each center is staffed with professionals that can help you navigate your options and stay safe. Go to our Find Help page to view a directory of domestic and sexual violence victim advocacy centers and find support near you.

To find more ways to join the movement against domestic and sexual violence, view our Get Involved page.