Sexual Violence

Forms of sexual violence

• Sexual assault or rape
• Child sexual abuse
• Incest
• Unwanted touching (groping, fondling, forced kissing, etc.)
• Sexual harassment or threats
• Sex trafficking or sexual exploitation
• Alcohol or drug facilitated sexual assault
• Exposing one’s genitals or naked body to others without consent
• Masturbating in public
• Voyeurism (watching someone engage in sexual acts without their knowledge or consent)
• Nonconsensual intimate image sharing
• Possession or distribution of child sexual abuse materials
• Using technology to generate intimate images of someone without their consent

What is consent?

Consent is an ongoing agreement between participants to engage in sexual activity. Consent is always freely and clearly communicated, and it should happen every time for any kind of sexual activity. We say that consent is ongoing because it is more than just a one time “yes” or “no.” It’s a continued dialogue between partners about boundaries, desires, and level of comfort with different sexual interactions.

Consent is always a definite, enthusiastic “yes” rather than the absence of a “no.” Silence is not consent, “I’m not sure” is not consent, and “I guess so…” is not consent. Always look for a clear, enthusiastic “yes” for consent.

If someone consented to sexual activity in the past, it doesn’t mean that they consent to further sexual activity in the future. It’s important to check in with your partner periodically to make sure that you’re both comfortable with an activity. One way to do this is by asking, “Is this OK?” or “Do you want to _____?” You can also withdraw consent at any point by communicating to your partner that you want to stop.

When consent cannot be given

Consent cannot be given by anyone who is underage. Additionally, consent cannot be given by individuals who are asleep, unconscious, or under the influence of drugs or alcohol. Agreeing to sexual activity due to pressure, coercion, intimidation, or threats is also not consent.

If you or someone you know has experienced sexual violence, visit our Find Help page to find support near you.